I was recently involved in an experience that many musicians will relate to. I was asked to be involved in a gig that was being put on for a friends birthday. The date was a long way off and we only had to play for half an hour or so. Ok so far. The line up was to be various friends of varying ability. I agreed on the understanding that I am busy with my own bands so wouldn't be able to rehearse much. This was accepted, I put the date in my diary and thought no more about it.
Over the next few weeks, I bumped in to various members of this 'band' and it became apparent that not everyone was on the same page. Some were super eager, while others were.....less so. I shrugged and ordered more beer (there are few things in life that can't be made better by ordering more beer).
Anyway, last weekend it was decided to cancel the whole thing. We all got a text (well I did anyway) saying that it was not working out and it was best if we knocked it on the head. This made me smile a little as it's certainly not the first time this has happened to me and I'm sure it won't be the last. My musical history is littered with stillborn projects and forgotten ideas. What seems great on Friday at 11pm, soon becomes a bit of a pain when you can't be arsed to rehearse on a Tuesday night. The obscure tribute act that everyone wants to be part of is destined to get a name but no more than that.
What it boils down to is the fact that musicians are terrors for being lazy, egotistical, stubborn and (most importantly) easily distracted. We are constantly talking a good fight and then having our head turned by another offer. It's not our fault. We are artists (except drummers) and we have brains that don't like to stay still. I'm sure there is some science to it but I'm a musician, not a scientist so I shall leave that one for someone else.
Suffice to say I'm sorry to everyone I ever included in any of my half-baked musical ideas and I hope that you don't hold it against me. Maybe we could get together and have a jam? Not next week though as I'm quite busy....how about Tuesday week?.....I'll give you a shout....soon....
